Cana Colony: Family Retreat

Dec. 27, 2020

Dear Cana families,

 

Blessings to you all on this Feast of the Holy Family.  You have been much in our hearts and prayers these past months, but today we are holding you all close in a special way.  2020 was an unusual year for everyone, but especially for families.  Some have thrived through it all, while others have disintegrated.  May the little family in Bethlehem light the way forward for each one.

 

In looking forward to 2021, we are thinking and praying about Cana. Last summer allowed us the opportunity to have done some nice work painting, replacing roof shingles, and other needed maintenance. The Madonna House staff also enjoyed their “staycations” there last summer.

 

Applications will not be available on Jan. 1st as in past years.  We need some more time to see what the new year holds in terms of this pandemic.  We will try to get back to you in mid-February about what we hope for this coming summer. We all are praying that we can open Cana and have the blessings it brings to us all. But we must wait and see.

 

Merry Christmas and blessings on the New Year,

Larry, Elizabeth and Fr. David

 

Summer

All Ages

Madonna House Retreat & Vacation Camp For Families

 

The Heart of Cana

On Sunday afternoons and evenings the 7 or 8 or 9 families begin settling in for their week. Husbands and wives are unpacking and storing groceries. Kids are running around everywhere. People are meeting one another for the first time—and walking down to the lake to get a first look at that beautiful, pristine body of water surrounded by Canadian wilderness.

 

The beautiful chapel, Our Lady of the Lake is tucked away in one corner, hidden, yet visible from many parts of the camp, its warm red sanc­tuary lamp speaking of a Presence that is with us at all times.

 

During the en­suing week, so much happens—in prayer, in every­day encounters, at play, at Mass, while doing dishes or praying the ros­ary in the evening as the setting sun shines into the chapel illuminat­ing the statue of Our Lady.

 

The Church’s teach­ing on marriage is given informally at conferences for parents and during homilies at Mass. And there is plenty of time for simply talking together—husbands and wives, clergy and laity, celibate staff of Madonna House and mar­ried couples.

 

Slowly during that week, a strange trans­formation begins to take place. Slowly, almost imperceptibly, burdens fall away and our vision of family is renewed. That is to say, we remember again that God is with us, that Christ dwells in us, through his Holy Spirit.

 

As Christ loved the Church and gave himself for her, so man and woman have it in them to love one another in their families with the very love of Christ himself. So whisper the breezes blow­ing through the poplar trees. So answer the stars that shine with undimmed brightness in the dark, dark nights of the wilderness. So confirms the silent Christ in the tabernacle, blessing us by day and by night.

 

Does this all sound a bit too idyllic for your taste? We could also mention the load of anguish and pain that is left at the feet of the Holy Family during an average week. The tears sometimes shed—tears of sorrow, repentance, joy. The unloading of despair that one’s family can even continue to be a family—despair replaced by a hope that enables one to start over yet again. The grace to trust is also given during these days together.

 

A major grace given is the renewed conviction that our marriages really can be lived out as the Church teaches, that with the help of the Lord and his saints, the im­possible can become pos­sible after all. How urgent it is that our Catholic families today touch this truth in a tangible way—see it, hear about it, experience it themselves!

 

Cana, you could say, is a bridge into the mystery at the heart of the life of every believer: the knowledge of…Christ, in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge (Col 2:2ff).

 

But so is the cry of the husband or wife who prays earnest­ly for light on the path and grace for the way. So, too, is the weariness at the end of the day that commends itself to the Lord more in sighs and groans than in words. So, too, are silent tears shed alone at night or together around the bed of a sick child.

 

So, also, the at times desperate struggle to forgive yet again, to serve yet again, to hope yet again that “it will all work out somehow.”

 

To all of these, the Lord in his mercy reveals himself at the heart of everyday life.

 

He offers us a share in his own joy that calls to us from the heart of wherever we are, and whatever we are living and says, “Trust love. Trust a generosity that forgets self for the sake of the other.”

 

Wherever the offering of love is asked, there, too, is the Mystery that draws us into itself. How much more is this true in an age when the family is being so sorely tried! Wherever Christ is loved, there, too, is the wedding feast!

 

Truly Cana Colony is a labor of love that yields a banquet of graces for those privileged to attend, and we thank the God of mercy for himself, who is access­ible to us in our great need today.

 

(by Fr. David May)

Beginnings of Cana

Cana Colony was begun as a response to the request by Pope Pius XII to Catherine Doherty in 1951 that she and Madonna House would “always remember the family” in their works. “Cana Colony” was begun the following year and has been going steadily for over 60 years.

 

Practical Details at the Camp

Eight cabins, a tent space, a large cook-shack and the chapel are located around a clear­ing surrounded by trees, at the edge the lake, which has a small beach. The clearing has a large play area with sand boxes and swings.

 

The cook-shack has two large rooms for cooking and eating, and is a central gathering place for everyone, serving for family recreation on rainy days. Both rooms are equipped with stoves, refrigerators, extra freezer space, tables, dishes, silverware, pots and pans, everything necessary for cooking—even dishtowels and highchairs. Each family provides its own food and does its own cooking.

 

Families need to come prepared to enjoy an experience of simple, rustic living, as the usual services and conveniences of an urban center are not available at the camp. The cook-shack is the only place that has electricity and running water; our one-room cabins have no electricity, and all of the jons are outdoor outhouses. Recreational activities include swimming, hiking, fishing, campfires, sing-alongs… Everyone shares in chores to help maintain the camp. Simplicity is part of the spirit of Cana Colony.

 

There is no set fee; rather, that is worked out according to the means of each family.

Further Reading and Downloads

Articles by Cana Participants

For more insight into Cana Colony, you might be interested in the following articles, printed in our newspaper to commemorate its 50th anniversary: